Couples Counselling

There may come a point in your relationship where you find yourself wondering:

“Could I ever trust him/her again?”
“Is it really worth it anymore?”
“Can I carry on with this?”
“Am I still in love with you?”
“Why do I feel so betrayed?”
“Why don’t we have sex anymore?”
“Am I still attracted to him/her?”

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If this is the case, you’re not alone. Many relationships hit difficult times for literally thousands of different reasons, and no two couples are ever the same.
Some people just feel as though they are banging their head against a brick wall and feel undervalued, feel they aren’t being listened to or ‘heard’ or perhaps they are suffering from the consequences of a sexual or emotional affair. It may feel like being with the other person is a chore, boring, painful or just too much.

Whatever the reason, sometimes it can feel like there is no way that you can move forward together.

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Couples counselling can help you both to:

  • Communicate clearly without rowing
  • Really be heard by your partner/spouse
  • Understand the underlying issues of your problems
  • Become aware of destructive behaviours you may have
  • Set a path to rebuild trust after it has been shattered
  • Set goals and reach them
  • Come to terms with an affair
  • Negotiate around other commitments that get in the way
  • Create a supportive and more loving future
I specialise in couples and marriage counselling and also in sexual therapy. I offer joint or single sessions and very often a combination of these – whatever you both feel is right.
I will help to give you the tools and techniques that you need to create the relationship that you both want.
Are you ready to take the first step? Get in touch for a free initial consultation where I can meet face to face with either one or both of you, explain the counselling process in greater depth and look at the issues that you want to resolve.

To book your free initial consultation where I can explain the counselling process to you, answer any questions you may want to ask or to have an informal chat, please see my contact page.